HEAVY LOAD...

Whoever says Friendship is easy has obviously never had a true friend. A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Obviously, all friends fight, because there is no perfect friendship. When I fight with my friends it’s usually about petty things such as what movies to watch, what to do after class, or arguing over different opinions. We usually just solve the problem by compromising. But when you think of it, it’s good to fight, because everything is normal, and for me it brings friends closer together. When it’s all resolved, you have a stronger bond, and it just feels good to not be fighting anymore. So yesterday I had a small ‘issue’ to one of my closest friend, a really petty thing. So before it gets any worst I just did not talk and walked out. For me it’s my way of saying ‘I need to cool down, I don’t want to hurt you or say anything that I might regret’ so I walk-out. I think my friend took it in a wrong way, I admit I was offended in what she said. I mean I was used to her being like that I usually just compromise but I was so tired, sleepy, stressed and all that time that I got really upset about what she told me, she even delivered her lines in the wrong way. So anyways, she should know why I walked-out. Of all people she should know me better, I mean we’re very much close and we understand each other. I was actually just waiting for her simple text of apology and everything will be the same. But then I waited for nothing. She did not text me and she did not even talked to me the next day. Anyways, I was just bothered by her actions. Anyways, I’m not used to this setting when I know my friend has an ‘issue’ with me. As for me I will just wait for her apology and that will be it. I don’t have any hard feelings now to her. I actually missed her. Well that’s friendship; sometimes you have to experience this situation to make your friendship better and stronger. I It's better to work the problems out than to stop being friends altogether.


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